Happiness

One of tonight's quotes is a repeat. President Gordon B. Hinckley talks about some of God's standards are out of date by today's standards here.

And President Benson's quote talks about happiness in marriage

"The secret of a happy marriage is to serve God and each other. The goal of marriage is unity and oneness, as well as self-development. Paradoxically, the more we serve one another, the greater is our spiritual and emotional growth."

--Ezra Taft Benson, "Fundamentals of Enduring Family Relationships," Ensign, Nov. 1982, 59

I read a study the other day online that a long marriage can be predicted. A study was done where they interviewed several couples & then followed up on them at periodic intervals, seems like it was 5 years, but I can't remember. Anyway, it showed that couples that gave 5 positives to every negative stayed together. I was telling Don about it at the grocery store. We walked past a family & the wife was very stressed. She was telling the husband where to get something & she was kind of rude about it & she spoke the same way to her kids. I wondered aloud to Don how long that marriage would last.

Faith, hope & charity

One of the quotes tonight was a repeat from President James E. Faust. It can be found here. He talks about obedience. The next one talks about the three virtues, faith, hope & charity.

"Hope is one leg of a three-legged stool, together with faith and charity. These three stabilize our lives regardless of the rough or uneven surfaces we might encounter at the time... Hope in our Heavenly Father's merciful plan of happiness leads to peace, mercy, rejoicing, and gladness. The hope of salvation is like a protective helmet; it is the foundation of our faith and an anchor to our souls."

--Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "The Infinite Power of Hope", Ensign, Nov 2008, 21–24

A three-legged milking stool is an example we used in the mission field to a testimony. The three legs were reading the scriptures, attending church & prayer.

Judge not

I thought the internet was going to go down again tonight. It has gone down at midnight the last 3 nights in a row. I'm not going to read my scriptures tonight, but will see if I can get the quotes up before the internet goes down. The first quote is from Elder Wirthlin about knowing where your children are. This is the 3rd time I've had it. I recognized it because I remembered what I had written the first time - my kids didn't like it when I wanted them to tell me where they were going.

The next one is about judging

"We should refrain from anything that seems to be a final judgment of any person...the Lord alone has the capacity to judge...And, in all of this we must remember the command to forgive."

--Elder Dallin H. Oaks, "Judge Not" and Judging", Media Name

Treasures

What are treasures? I went to Google & found these definitions, among others:

• treasure - accumulated wealth in the form of money or jewels etc.
• treasure - any possession that is highly valued by its owner; "the children returned from the seashore with their shells and other treasures" 
• treasure - a collection of precious things; "the trunk held all her meager treasures"

I also found a cool blog named Rachel's Latter-day Saints Blog with an entry titled What Are Treasures in Heaven? I would like to read this & other entries in the blog, but don't have time tonight.

Readthescriptures dot com has taken another snippet of Elder Oaks' conference address from General Conference 1993:

"The Savior taught that we should not lay up treasures on earth but should lay up treasures in heaven (see Matt. 6:19-21). In light of the ultimate purpose of the great plan of happiness, I believe that the ultimate treasures on earth and in heaven are our children and our posterity."

--Elder Dallin H. Oaks, "The Great Plan of Happiness", Ensign, Nov. 1993, 75

And it still bothers me. What happens if you don't have children or have just one or two children? One of Mother's friends was always bragging about how many grandchildren she had, which I thought was quite insensitive, especially when Mother only has 2 & she's mighty lucky to have those.

Elder DeHaan's conference address was a repeat from Never simply temporal. And seems to go hand in hand with tonight's quote.

Trust in the Lord

The Lord cannot help us if we don't trust him. It is so hard to turn our problems over to Him. The title of this next conference talk is another oxymoron.

"I know that God loves us. He allows us to exercise our moral agency even when we misuse it. He permits us to make our own decisions. Christ cannot help us if we do not trust Him; He cannot teach us if we do not serve Him. He will not force us to do what's right, but He will show us the way only when we decide to serve Him. Certainly, for us to serve in His kingdom, Christ requires that we experience a change of thought and attitude."

--Thomas S. Monson, "Looking Back and Moving Forward", Ensign, May 2008, 87–90

More on procrastination. Which is good for me, the great procrastinator.

"Procrastination may seem the easy way, as it momentarily removes the effort required to accomplish something of value. Ironically, in time, procrastination produces a heavy burden laced with guilt and a hollow lack of satisfaction. Temporal and, even more importantly, spiritual goals will not be achieved by procrastination."

--Elder Donald L. Hallstrom, "Do It Now", General Priesthood Meeting October 2007

True faith

The first quote tonight is a repeat from Elder Claudio R. M. Costa. I remembered it because it is an oxymoron. "We can lay down our lives for those we love not by physically dying for them but rather by living for them ..."

The excerpt from Elder Bednar's talk explains why we must act in faith.

"True faith is focused in and on the Lord Jesus Christ and always leads to righteous action. The Prophet Joseph Smith taught that "faith is the first principle in revealed religion, and the foundation of all righteousness" and that it is also "the principle of action in all intelligent beings". Action alone is not faith in the Savior, but acting in accordance with correct principles is a central component of faith. Thus, faith without works is dead."

--David A. Bednar, "Ask in Faith", Ensign, May 2008, 94–97

More on choice

Perhaps I should've labeled by subject instead of by author & date, but I didn't. These very short quotes from President Monson are thought provoking.

"Service, to be acceptable to the Savior, must come from willing minds, ready hands, and pledged hearts."

--President Thomas S. Monson, Ensign, May 1994, 62

And the next one is sooo true.

"The choices we make determine our destiny."

--Thomas S Monson, "Choose You This Day", Ensign, November 2004 pg. 67

We are somebody

Two short quotes tonight. Elder Ashton's quote gives me hope. Because sometimes I wonder.

"As children of God we are somebody. He will build us, mold us, and magnify us if we will but hold our heads up, our arms out, and walk with him. What a great blessing to be created in his image and know of our true potential in and through him! What a great blessing to know that in his strength we can do all things!"

--Marvin J. Ashton, "In His Strength", Ensign, Jul 1973, 24

And Bishop McMullin's is keenly felt. I strive very much to listen to the Holy Ghost.

"The Holy Ghost is the third member of the Godhead, sent forth by God to reveal all needful things. He teaches and testifies with divine power and clarity. His witness may go unheard or unheeded, forsaken or denied, but it is never misunderstood."

--Bishop Keith B. McMullin; Ensign, May 1996, Page 6

School Thy Feelings

This should be dated December 23, but it's after midnight, so it won't be.

The first quote tonight is a repeat from Elder Boyd K. Packer's thought from The Standard of Truth Has Been Erected.

The one by President Monson reminds me of Hymn 336, School Thy Feelings. Of course, the title of his talk is the first line of the hymn.

"We've all felt anger. It can come when things don't turn out the way we want. It might be a reaction to something which is said of us or to us. We may experience it when people don't behave the way we want them to behave. Perhaps it comes when we have to wait for something longer than we expected. We might feel angry when others can't see things from our perspective. There seem to be countless possible reasons for anger….If we desire to have a proper spirit with us at all times, we must choose to refrain from becoming angry."

--Thomas S. Monson, "School Thy Feelings, O My Brother", Ensign, Nov 2009, 62, 67–69

Anger is a secondary emotion. It is always caused by something first.

Daily hope

I REALLY like this first quote. I find it so ... umm ... applicable, appropriate, hopeful ...

"Daily hope is vital, since the "Winter Quarters" of our lives are not immediately adjacent to our promised land... Those with true hope often see their personal circumstances shaken, like kaleidoscopes, again and again. Yet with the "eye of faith," they still see divine pattern and purpose."

--Neal A. Maxwell, "Brightness of Hope", Ensign, Nov. 1994

 And the next one is also thought provoking ... another reminder for a gracious heart ...

"It is indeed remarkable that the nature of our dealings with our fellowmen will determine, in large measure, our status in the kingdom of heaven....We may attend to rites and rituals and yet overlook the weightier matters such as brotherly kindness, honesty, mercy, virtue, and integrity. Let us never forget that if we omit them from our lives we may be found unworthy to come into His presence."

--Mark E. Petersen, "Do Unto Others", Ensign, May 1977, 73

Salvation

Readthescriptures dot com chose one line from Elder Russell M. Nelson's April 2008 Conference talk as a quote.

"In God's eternal plan, salvation is an individual matter; exaltation is a family matter."

--Russell M. Nelson, "Salvation and Exaltation", Ensign, May 2008, 7–10

I added the italics as this statement concerns me. I searched for it to read & ponder it. I also included the link so I can go back & read it fully. The next quote also confused me.

"We cannot have faith without belief, but we can believe without having faith. Belief is the foundation of faith. Faith is trusting in our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. The scriptures contain many assurances of salvation to those who exercise faith and obey the commandments... Faith is the motivating force that impels action."

--O. Leslie Stone, "The Constant Exercise of Our Faith", July 1973 , Ensign pg. 59

How can we believe without having faith? So, I looked up believe, thinking, "Let's define believe." As a verb phrase, believe means to have faith in. However, as a noun it is to have confidence, without absolute proof. As a verb used with an object it has several meanings. The 4th is to suppose or assume.

Live today

Carpe diem - although a synonym of this is take no thought of the morrow, this is not the meaning I thought of when reading today's quotes. One of them is a repeat, as they so often are anymore. It was from "The Power to Heal from Within" by Elder Merrill J. Bateman. 


The other one made me think of the subject of this entry, live today or carpe diem (seize the day).

"Remember, tomorrow is connected with today, and what we do with today determines the tomorrow."

--Marvin J. Ashton, "The Time Is Now", Ensign, May 1975, 85

It also reminded me of the third verse in Robert Frost's poem, "The Road Not Taken" which says:

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

Acquiring meekness

More & more frequently I am finding the quotes given are repeats. President Vern R. Peel, my mission president, would always tell us that repetition is the key to learning, or maybe it was Sister Peel. At any rate it seems the 2nd or 3rd time through I learn something just as I did the first time.

"None of us will escape tragedy and suffering. Each of us will probably react differently. However, if we can recall the Lord's promise, "for I the Lord am with you," we will be able to face our problems with dignity and courage. We will find the strength to be of good cheer instead of becoming resentful, critical, or defeated. We will be able to meet life's unpleasant happenings with clear vision, strength, and power."

--Marvin J. Ashton, "Be of Good Cheer", Ensign, May 1986, 66

Bishop H. David Burton in his October 2004 General Conference address tells us meekness "reflects a healthy self-esteem and a genuine self-control." Which I do not have & need to cultivate, just as President Peel used to urge me.

Do things in wisdom & order

I thought about not making an entry tonight. One quote is a repeat & the other one bothers me. I took the reference provided for the quote, searched for it & read the address. After I read it in context, it didn't bother me any more, but I found this quote toward the end of it that I really like.

"... we should remember King Benjamin’s caution to “see that all these things are done in wisdom and order; for it is not requisite that a man should run faster than he has strength” (Mosiah 4:27). I think of that inspired teaching whenever I feel inadequate, frustrated, or depressed."

--Elder Dallin H. Oaks, "The Great Plan of Happiness", Ensign, Nov. 1993, 75

The next quote was a repeat from here. Elder Baxter counsels to hold fast to that which is good.

Choice

Just as freedom isn't free, choice isn't free either. We have the opportunity to make choices.

"No temptation, no pressure, no enticing can overcome us unless we allow such. If we make the wrong choice, we have no one to blame but ourselves. President Brigham Young once expressed this truth by relating it to himself. Said he: "If Brother Brigham shall take a wrong track, and be shut out of the Kingdom of heaven, no person will be to blame but Brother Brigham. I am the only being in heaven, earth, or hell, that can be blamed." He continued: "This will equally apply to every Latter-day Saint. Salvation is an individual operation."

--Thomas S. Monson, "The Three Rs of Choice", Ensign, Nov. 2010, 67–70

President Henry B. Eyring says we can also help others, but it requires faith to follow counsel.

Home should be a haven

Tonight's quotes are both from President James E. Faust. The first one is here. It talks about doing the ordinary day to day things. The next one talks about modern communication.

"Without question, we need to be informed of the happenings of the world. But modern communication brings into our homes a drowning cascade of the violence and misery of the worldwide human race. There comes a time when we need to find some peaceful spiritual renewal. "I acknowledge with great gratitude the peace and contentment we can find for ourselves in the spiritual cocoons of our homes, our sacrament meetings, and our holy temples. In these peaceful environments, our souls are rested. We have the feeling of having come home."

--James E. Faust, "Gratitude As a Saving Principle," Ensign, May 1990, 86

Cell phones can be a blessing & a curse. We have a landline, which we never use. Main reason, I guess, is there is no caller ID & we have become spoiled. We want to see who we will be talking to before we answer the phone. Cell phones are constantly with us, if we want them to be. I carry a cell phone mostly to keep in touch with my family. Calls come in when you are on the toilet, in the midst of dinner, a meeting, a conversation, driving down the road.

We are in the middle of a foreclosure. I need to send stuff, I need to talk to people, Don's paycheck is being garnished, yet I also need to take care of my mother, my son, myself. I feel like I'm drowning. Like I have no place to turn. So, I mindlessly play games, I read my scriptures, I read other books & spin my wheels.

Multitasking

Multitasking seems to be the "in" thing. But I have a hard time chewing gum & walking at the same time, LOL. So, this thought from Volume 4 of Thoughts for 100 Days gives me hope.

"Any task in life is easier if we approach it with the one at a time attitude. ... To cite a whimsical saying; 'If you chase two rabbits, both of them will escape.' No one is adequate to do everything all at once. We have to select what is important, what is possible, and begin where we are, with what we have. And if we begin and if we keep going the weight, the worry, the doubt, the depression will begin to lift .... We can't do everything always, but we can do something now, and doing something will help to lift the weight and lessen the worry, 'The beginning,' said Plato, 'is the most important part.'"

--Richard L. Evans, Thoughts for One Hundred Days, vol. 4, pp. 89-90

And even though President Uchtdorf's thought may take a little different direction,but being "perfect" members of the Church also requires "multitasking."

"There may be times when we feel overwhelmed, hurt, or on the edge of discouragement as we are trying so hard to be perfect members of the Church. Be assured, there is balm in Gilead. Let us listen to the prophets of our day as they help us to focus on the things that are central to the Creator's plan for the eternal destiny of His children. The Lord knows us, He loves us, He wants us to succeed, and He encourages us by saying: "And see that all … things are done in wisdom and order; for it is not requisite that men or women should run faster than they have strength."

--Dieter F. Uchtdorf,, "Heeding the Voice of the Prophets", Liahona, Jul 2008, 2–5

Pray always

Prayer is talking to God. Sometimes I think people make it too hard. I know sometimes I start praying & remember something someone said about people with OCD praying too much. This pretty much sums it up:

However, when you feel the need to pray in order to avoid something bad from happening, and you have anxiety if you don't pray then you have OCD.

OCD & Excessive Prayer

However, if you have a problem, pray for the problem. The dog is out & can't be contained in the kennel because he chewed through the door. A new door is almost $100. Something bad might happen to the dog until the kennel can be fixed - he might get hit if he runs out into the highway; he might attack the kids getting on the bus, not because he's a mean dog, but because he craves affection. His neck is 33 inches & the largest collar, chain, whatever is only 30 inches. He's huge, so he can't be chained, even if we had a chain to chain him. So, this quote from President Monson gives me hope:

"Through personal prayer, through family prayer, by trusting in God with faith, nothing wavering, we can call down to our rescue His mighty power. His call to us is as it has ever been: “Come unto me."

--Thomas S. Monson, "Come unto Him in Prayer and Faith", Ensign, Mar 2009, 4–9

There are at least 2 of us praying for the dog. Of course, even if you pray fervently, something still might happen. But you don't KNOW that. This quote from Elder Ashton originally appeared in the Ensign in February 1993.

"I recommend you come to know your Father in Heaven. Come to love Him. Always remember that He loves you and will give you guidance and support if you will but give Him the chance. Include Him in your decision making. Include Him in your heartaches and heartbreaks. Include Him when you take inventory of your personal worth."

--Marvin J. Ashton, "Becoming a Quality Person Now", Ensign, Apr 2010, 28–29

He knows our concerns.

Tasks of life

The quotes tonight seem to be "spot on" for me. I have been dodging the "tasks of life." Getting a late start on reading when I've got an early morning & a busy day is one way of dodging those tasks.

"Let us remember, too, that greatness is not always a matter of the scale of one’s life, but of the quality of one’s life. True greatness is not always tied to the scope of our tasks, but to the quality of how we carry out our tasks whatever they are. In that attitude, let us give our time, ourselves, and our talents to the things that really matter now, things which will still matter a thousand years from now."

--Spencer W. Kimball, "A Gift of Gratitude", Tambuli, Dec 1977, 1

 And the next one

"Even though the tasks of life become heavy, and although sorrow thrusts a drooping burden upon us, the light that emanates from our Savior beckons us on, undismayed."

--Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin; Ensign, November 1994, Page 77

Unless we choose to ignore that light.

Be prepared

Modern day prophets teach us to be prepared just as the ancient prophets taught. I was surprised to see such a recent quote in readthescriptures dot com's database of quotes.

"If we do not have a deep foundation of faith and a solid testimony of truth, we may have difficulty withstanding the harsh storms and icy winds of adversity which inevitably come to each of us."

--Thomas S. Monson, "On Being Spiritually Prepared", Ensign, Feb 2010, 4–6

I read this by President Monson & said, "Amen, brother."

The power of correct principles

I thought of this familiar quote from Joseph Smith, "I teach them correct principles, and they govern themselves."

"Well-taught doctrines and principles have a more powerful influence on behavior than rules."

--Elder Dallin H. Oaks, Ensign, Nov. 1999, 79

And yes, onward ever onward

"The path to eternal life is not on a plateau. Rather, it is an incline, ever onward and upward. Hence, ever-increasing spiritual understanding and energy are required to reach our destination. Because the pernicious opposition by Satan continues, the continuous enlightened guidance of the Holy Ghost is absolutely essential."

--Elder Keith K. Hilbig, "Quench Not the Spirit Which Quickens the Inner Man", October 2007 General Conference

I went searching for Joseph Smith's quote & found this in Elder Richard G. Scott's talk, The Power of Correct Principles.

Joseph Smith’s inspired statement, “I teach them correct principles, and they govern themselves,” still applies. (Quoted by John Taylor, in Millennial Star, 15 Nov. 1851, p. 339.) The Lord uses that pattern with us. 

- Elder Richard G. Scott, "The Power of Correct Principles", Ensign, May 1993, 32

Tithing

I love the name of the talk this first quote came from, "Tithing, a Commandment Even for the Destitute." I think it should have been titled, "Especially for the Destitute." I see the Lord's hand in so many things these last few months when our cupboard has been "bare." The garnishments of Don's wages, the foreclosure on the house. Yet, each pay period tithing comes out of his check first. I, on the other hand, have a harder time, yet I am striving to pay my tithing also. It isn't as "easy" as it is with Don's check. His comes out by bill pay. We set it up & don't have to worry about it. My savings account doesn't have that option.

"...the truer measure of sacrifice isn't so much what one gives to sacrifice as what one sacrifices to give. Faith isn't tested so much when the cupboard is full as when it is bare. In these defining moments, the crisis doesn't create one's characterit reveals it."

--Lynn G. Robbins, "Tithing, a Commandment Even for the Destitute," Ensign, May 2005, 34 

This next story is something I should've had 34 years ago when I started working in the Missionary Department in the Church Office Building. I had a very hard time with the "human-ness" of the General Authorities.

"May I offer counsel of a general nature, first with comments about General Authorities. We recognize them as instruments in the hand of the Lord, yet realize that they are ordinary human beings. They require haircuts, laundry services, and occasional reminders just like anyone else. President [Ezra Taft] Benson once shared with us a story to illustrate. He said:

" 'Orson F. Whitney . . . was a great man to concentrate. One day when he was traveling by train, he was so preoccupied that he did not notice the train pass the station where he was to get off. So he had to [be driven] back to where he should have been. Meanwhile the stake president waited and waited. . . . Finally when he decided that something had more than likely happened to Brother Whitney and he was not going to make it, they commenced the meeting. As Elder Whitney approached, he was greeted by the opening hymn, which was "Ye Simple Souls Who Stray." '

"We honor such a man because of his extraordinary calling. His official acts are valid on earth and in heaven."

--Russell M. Nelson, "Honoring the Priesthood," Ensign, May 1993, 40

This life

is the time for men to prepare to meet God; yea, behold the day of this life is the day for men to perform their labors. Alma 34:32

"This life is not so much a time for getting and accumulating as it is a time for giving and becoming. Mortality is the battlefield upon which justice and mercy meet. But they need not meet as adversaries, for they are reconciled in the Atonement of Jesus Christ for all who wisely use Today."

--Lance B. Wickman, "Today", Ensign, May 2008, 103–5

And this next one, really strikes a chord with me.

"Just as Jesus used a child in His mortal ministry as an example for the people of the pure love they must and could have to be like Him, He has offered us the family as an example of an ideal setting in which we can learn how to love as He loves. That is because the greatest joys and the greatest sorrows we experience are in family relationships."

--Henry B. Eyring, "Our Perfect Example", Ensign, Nov 2009, 70–73

The greatest joys & sorrows ...

Hold to the rod

the iron rod;
Tis strong, and bright, and true.
The iron rod is the word of God;
'Twill safely guide us through.

Hymn 274

The first quote tonight reminded me of this hymn. This is the chorus, which will now be running through my head. It will have to compete with Jeanette Isabella though. Today, Nick thought I was trying to sing, LOL.

"Because of Christ there is hope smiling brightly before you, and you need not worry too much about sickness, death, poverty, or other afflictions. The Lord will take care of you. Your responsibility is to keep the commandments, feast upon the words of Christ, and stay in the path to your heavenly home."

--Julie B. Beck, "There Is Hope Smiling Brightly before Us", Ensign, May 2003, 103

the next one is one is good advice. He is a cardiothoracic surgeon & I love the line, "proper diagnosis ..."

"We should not be discouraged or depressed by our shortcomings. No one is without weakness. As part of the divine plan, we are tested to see whether we master weakness or let weakness master us. Proper diagnosis is essential to proper treatment. The Lord gave us this remarkable assurance: “Because thou hast seen thy weakness thou shalt be made strong” (Ether 12:37). But wishing for strength won’t make us strong. It takes faith and work to shore up a weakened cord of integrity."

--Russell M. Nelson, "Integrity of Heart", Ensign, Aug. 1995, 19

Procrastination revisited

There was another repeat in the quotes for tonight. In fact, I thought they were both repeats because the excerpt from President Monson is dealing with procrastination ...

"There is no tomorrow to remember if we don't do something today, and to live most fully today, we must do that which is of greatest importance. Let us not procrastinate those things which matter most."

--Thomas S. Monson, "Treasure of Eternal Value", Ensign , April 2008, 4–9

 I am a great procrastinator. I did some again today.

Someday ...

I could easily have named this entry "Scarlett O'Hara Syndrome," but I didn't

"There is a danger in the word someday when what it means is “not this day.”...The scriptures make the danger of delay clear. It is that we may discover that we have run out of time. The God who gives us each day as a treasure will require an accounting. We will weep, and He will weep, if we have intended to repent and to serve Him in tomorrows which never came or have dreamt of yesterdays where the opportunity to act was past. This day is a precious gift of God. The thought “Someday I will” can be a thief of the opportunities of time and the blessings of eternity."

--Henry B. Eyring, "This Day", Ensign, May 2007, 89–91

If we delay or procrastinate, we get what we get, not what we necessarily wanted.

"The axiom 'You get what you pay for' is true for spiritual rewards as well. You get what you pay for in obedience, in faith in Jesus Christ, in diligent application of the truths that you learn."

--Richard G. Scott, "The Sustaining Power of Faith in Times of Uncertainty and Testing", Ensign, May 2003, 75

Do it now.

Grand principle of Mormonism

So, why does Joseph Smith's comment on friendship bother me? Elder Jensen continues, "Perhaps one reason the scriptures make little specific mention of the principle of friendship is because it should be manifest quite naturally as we live the gospel. In fact, if the consummate Christian attribute of charity has a first cousin, it is friendship."

And perhaps it is the word "Mormonism." Mormonism doesn't have a very good connotation. People think of Mormons as a cult & we're not. Most people still think Mormons are not Christian. Mormon is not the name of the Church, it is The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The 6th Article of Faith states it better than I can:

We believe in the same organization that existed in the Primitive Church, namely, apostles, prophets, pastors, teachers, evangelists, and so forth.

The Church of Jesus Christ was restored to the earth. AND The Book of Mormon is not our Bible. I think of the scripture in 2 Nephi 29:3, "A Bible! A Bible! We have got a Bible ..."

OK, I've "ranted & raved." Do I feel better? I don't know. Did I explain it to my satisfaction? I'll see.

One of tonight's quotes was a repeat. I was going to comment on it, but got sidetracked on the "grand principal of Mormonism." But here is one from President Hinckley:

"The Lord's standards have come from Him. Some of them may appear a little out-of-date in our society, but this does not detract from their validity nor diminish the virtue of their application. The subtle reasoning of men, no matter how clever, no matter how plausible it may sound, cannot abridge the declared wisdom of God."

--President Gordon B. Hinckley, "Pursue the Steady Course", Ensign, Jan. 2005, 5

Friendship

I read the quotes tonight & I'm thinking, "I know I just read this about Joseph Smith saying friendship is a fundamental principle of 'Mormonism.' I didn't like it then & it still bugs me." So, I proceeded to search for Jensen, friendship & Joseph Smith in every one of my blogs. No result for that quote. Then I wondered if maybe someone else had used the same quote & there it was. Kathleen Hughes used it in her conference talk in 2005. Here it is: different talk, different speaker, same quote.

"The Prophet Joseph Smith taught that "friendship is one of the grand fundamental principles of ‘Mormonism.' " That thought ought to inspire and motivate all of us because I feel that friendship is a fundamental need of our world. I think in all of us there is a profound longing for friendship, a deep yearning for the satisfaction and security that close and lasting relationships can give. Perhaps one reason the scriptures make little specific mention of the principle of friendship is because it should be manifest quite naturally as we live the gospel. In fact, if the consummate Christian attribute of charity has a first cousin, it is friendship."

--Marlin K. Jensen, "Friendship: A Gospel Principle", Ensign, May 1999, 64

 And another one about friendship,

"It takes courage to be a real friend ... A friend is a person who will suggest and render the best for us regardless of the immediate consequences. Sir Winston Churchill became Great Britain's greatest friend in his country's darkest hour because he was courageous enough to call for "blood, toil, tears, and sweat" when some would have accepted him more readily as a friend had he advocated peaceful surrender. President Abraham Lincoln was once criticized for his attitude toward his enemies. "Why do you try to make friends of them?" asked an associate. "You should try to destroy them." "Am I not destroying my enemies," Lincoln gently replied, "when I make them my friends?"

--Marvin J. Ashton, "What Is a Friend?", Ensign Jan. 1973, 41

I have always liked Abraham Lincoln. I hope some day to meet him & not be tongue-tied in his presence.

Death is Life

I HAVE to clean my desk. I have so much paper & stuff on it. I copied a poem from the LDS Church's children's magazine, The Friend, several weeks ago. The page has been propped up in front of the keyboard. I will type it here & then trash the page.

Death is Life

Death is not the end.
Death is the beginning of a new life.
So do not fear death.
Your friends and family will be waiting for you,
And so will your Savior, Jesus Christ, and God Himself
For you are His child: do not fear
Just lift up your head and say,
"Hello, Father."

Aaron S., 10, Arizona

Past & present

This first quote is going to have several "labels."

"In 1844 Josiah Quincy (a non-member), a respected mayor of Boston, Massachusetts, traveled to Nauvoo, Illinois. He toured the city, visited with the Saints, and interviewed the Prophet Joseph Smith. Mr. Quincy later wrote a book titled Figures of the Past and included a chapter on the Prophet with this prediction: "It is by no means improbable that some future text-book for the use of generations yet unborn will contain a question something like this: 'What historical American of the nineteenth century has exerted the most powerful influence upon the destinies of his countrymen?' And it is by no means impossible that the answer to the interrogatory may be thus written: 'Joseph Smith, the Mormon prophet.'"

--John Henry Evans, Joseph Smith: An American Prophet (1946), 3-4. Quoted by Tad R. Callister, "Joseph Smith: Prophet of the Restoration," Ensign, June 2002, 62

and next ...

"As we move toward the future, we must not neglect the lessons of the past. Our Heavenly Father gave His Son. The Son of God gave His life. We are asked by Them to give our lives, as it were, in Their divine service. Will you? Will I? Will we? There are lessons to be taught, there are kind deeds to be done, there are souls to be saved."

--Thomas S. Monson, "Becoming Our Best Selves", Ensign, Nov. 1999, 18

Christ's mission

It is very late & the internet is slow. It's a good thing the quotes are short tonight. Even so,

"The things of God are of deep import; and time, and experience, and careful and ponderous and solemn thoughts can only find them out."

--Joseph Smith, Liberty, MO, March 25, 1839, History of the Church, 3:295

 and ...

"Christ was sent not only to help us heal the wounds of transgression and iniquity, but also to bear our grief and sorrow and guilt."

--The New Era, December 1988, pages 4-7.

Love one another

In Matthew 22:39 Jesus said that we should love our neighbor as ourselves. This is kind of tricky if we don't have much respect for our self. It is interesting that both quotes tonight follow this theme.

"Joseph Smith himself was a great friend to many. He said, 'Friendship is one of the grand fundamental principles of "Mormonism"; [it is designed] to revolutionize and civilize the world, and cause wars and contentions to cease and men to become friends and brothers.'"

--Kathleen H. Hughes, "What Greater Goodness Can We Know: Christlike Friends," Ensign, May 2005, 74

My thoughts on this is it shouldn't be just "Mormonism" but all of Christianity. We need to live the Golden Rule, treat others as we want to be treated.

"Kindness, love, patience, understanding, and unity will increase as we serve, while intolerance, jealousy, envy, greed, and selfishness decrease or disappear. The more we give of ourselves, the more our capacity to serve, understand, and love will grow."

--Carlos H. Amado, "Service, a Divine Quality", Ensign, May 2008, 35–37

Decide now

to follow the Savior's teachings.

"We can lay down our lives for those we love not by physically dying for them but rather by living for them — giving of our time; always being present in their lives; serving them; being courteous, affectionate, and showing true love for those of our family and to all men — as the Savior taught."

--Elder Claudio R. M. Costa, "Don't Leave for Tomorrow What You Can Do Today", October 2007 General Conference

and ...

"Decide now to make general conference a priority in your life. Decide to listen carefully and follow the teachings that are given. Listen to or read the talks more than once to better understand and follow the counsel. By doing these things, the gates of hell will not prevail against you, the powers of darkness will be dispersed from before you, and the heavens will shake for your good."

--Elder Paul V. Johnson, "The Blessings of General Conference", Ensign, Nov. 2005, 50

Think of others

This first quote reminds me of counsel my mission president often gave me to have a gracious heart.

"At the heart of the message of the Savior of the world is a single, glorious, wonderful, still largely untried concept. In its simplest terms the message is that we should seek to overcome the selfishness we all seem to be born with, that we should overcome human nature and think of others before self."

--James E. Faust, "A Pattern of Love," Ensign, Dec. 1999, 2

And I try, I truly do try. But I find it hard when others don't.

"If we truly understood the Atonement and the eternal value of each soul, we would seek out the wayward boy and girl and every other wayward child of God. We would help them to know of the love Christ has for them. We would do all that we can to help prepare them to receive the saving ordinances of the gospel."

--M. Russell Ballard, "The Atonement and the Value of One Soul," Ensign, May 2004, 86

 But how? I wish I knew.

The standard of truth

I enjoyed this quote by President Packer:

"You always hold the key of repentance to unlock the prison door. If they throw the word diversity at you, grab hold of it and say, "I am already diverse, and I intend to stay diverse." If the word is tolerance, grab that one, too, saying, "I expect you to be tolerant of my lifestyle—obedience, integrity, abstinence, repentance." If the word is choice, tell them you choose good, old-fashioned morality."

--Boyd K. Packer, "The Standard of Truth Has Been Erected", Liahona Nov 2003, 24–27

And this one by Elder Holland:

"God never leaves us alone, never leaves us unaided in the challenges that we face."

--Jeffrey R. Holland, "The Ministry of Angels", Ensign, Nov 2008, 29–31

Both of these quotes leave me wanting to read the talks they came out of, especially Elder Holland's.

Attitude of gratitude

President Monson tells us gratitude is one of the noblest of virtues.

"This is a wonderful time to be living here on earth. Our opportunities are limitless. While there are some things wrong in the world today, there are many things right, such as teachers who teach, ministers who minister, marriages that make it, parents who sacrifice, and friends who help. "We can lift ourselves, and others as well, when we refuse to remain in the realm of negative thought and cultivate within our hearts an attitude of gratitude. If ingratitude be numbered among the serious sins, then gratitude takes its place among the noblest of virtues."

--Thomas S. Monson, "An Attitude of Gratitude," Ensign, Feb. 2000, 2

 And the Prophet Joseph Smith teaches children must be taught.

"If children are to be brought up in the way they should go, to be good citizens here and happy hereafter, they must be taught. It is idle to suppose that children will grow up good, while surrounded with wickedness, without cultivation. It is folly to suppose that they can become learned without education."

--Discourses of the Prophet Joseph Smith, p. 273

Help is available

if we but ask for it.

"In our life's journey to return to and become more like our Father, we are not left alone. God has given us the necessary gifts to help us in our mortal experience...These gifts help us navigate our lives toward eternal goals. What a comfort it is to know that there is a plan providing us with a Savior, Jesus Christ. His sacrifice makes it possible for all people who comply with His gospel teachings to be forgiven through repentance. What a comfort it is to know that help is available for us to succeed in our endeavors to return to live with our Father in Heaven. What a comfort it is to know that we are not alone sailing uncharted waters as we go through life's experiences."

--Elder José A. Teixeira, "Gifts to Help Us Navigate Our Life",
April 2009 General Conference

Parents & families are another resource God has given us.

"Every home is a house of learning either for good or otherwise. Family members may learn to be obedient, honest, industrious, self-reliant, and faithful in living gospel principles, or they may learn something else. "Learning the gospel in the homes of Church members should be centered on the scriptures and on the words of the latter-day prophets. The Lord has commanded parents to teach their children."

--Joseph B. Wirthlin, Ensign, May 1993, p. 70

Random quotes from RaDoMiNic

Here is one from October 2008:

Too many of us, when we accomplish what we set out to do, exclaim, 'See what I have done!' instead of saying, 'See where I have been led.'

~ Henry Ford

Two more, these are from Jan. 7, 2009, from BratFactor

The more we allow ourselves to unfold,
the less likely we are to unravel.

~ Rabbi Irwin Kula

So, how do you unfold? And how do we respond?

We will all have failures and rejections in life. The real question is how will you respond, with bitterness, envy and self-doubt, or with resilience and wisdom?

~ Rabbi Harold Kushner

And some spring quotes from March 18, 2010:

"The sun was warm but the wind was chill.
You know how it is with an April day."

~   Robert Frost

And one about sunflowers.

"In April, we cannot see sunflowers in France, so we might say the sunflowers do not exist. But the local farmers have already planted thousands of seeds, and when they look at the bare hills, they may be able to see the sunflowers already. The sunflowers are there. They lack only the conditions of sun, heat, rain and July. Just because we cannot see them does not mean that they do not exist."

~ Thich Nhat Hanh 

Here's one from March 19, 2010

In the spring I have counted one hundred and thirty-six different kinds of weather inside of four and twenty hours.

~ Mark Twain

Christ's atonement

Tonight's quote is thought provoking:

"Just as the lame man at the pool of Bethesda needed someone stronger than himself to be healed (see John 5:1-9), so we are dependent on the miracles of Christ's atonement if our souls are to be made whole from grief, sorrow, and sin."

--Merrill J. Bateman, "The Power to Heal from Within", Ensign, May 1995, 13

 The other quote was a repeat. I have these quotes liberally sprinkled throughout the reading blog & my main blog. One of these days I'll have to consolidate them.

Today is the day ...

not tomorrow. It can be very easy to get caught in the daily procrastination of the Scarlett O'Hara Syndrome or I'll think about it tomorrow.

While there is nothing you can do now about yesterday, and tomorrow is always one day into the future, you have full control over today. From CollegeGrad.com

I like Elder Wirthlin's choices.

"Tomorrow's joy or tomorrow's despair has its roots in decisions we make today. Perhaps some people think to themselves: 'I know I need to change some things in my life. Maybe later, but not now.' Those who stand at the threshold of life always waiting for the right time to change are like the man who stands at the bank of a river waiting for the water to pass so he can cross on dry land. Today is the day of decision."

--Joseph B. Wirthlin, "Three Choices," Ensign, Nov. 2003, 78

And another telling us to make daily efforts to strive to be more like God.

"We must not lose hope. Hope is an anchor to the souls of men. Satan would have us cast away that anchor. In this way he can bring discouragement and surrender. But we must not lose hope. The Lord is pleased with every effort, even the tiny, daily ones in which we strive to be more like Him. Though we may see that we have far to go on the road to perfection, we must not give up hope."

--Ezra Taft Benson, "A Mighty Change of Heart," Ensign, Oct. 1989, 2

Patterning our life after the Master

Wow! These are some cool quotes tonight.

"If we can pattern our life after the Master, and take his teachings and example as the supreme pattern for our own, we will not find it difficult to be consistent and loyal in every walk of life, for we will be committed to a single, sacred standard of conduct and belief."

--Howard W. Hunter, "Standing As Witnesses of God", Ensign, May 1990, 60

And this next one ... talk about symbolism in the scriptures ... this analogy is one I can understand:

"Each of us will have our own Fridays — those days when the universe itself seems shattered and the shards of our world lie littered about us in pieces. We all will experience those broken times when it seems we can never be put together again. We will all have our Fridays. But I testify to you in the name of the One who conquered death — Sunday will come. In the darkness of our sorrow, Sunday will come. No matter our desperation, no matter our grief, Sunday will come. In this life or the next, Sunday will come."

--Joseph B. Wirthlin, "Sunday Will Come", Ensign, Nov. 2006, 28

Thoughts mold your features

The internet is SOOOOO slow tonight, I almost forgot what I was doing. The subject line is the first line of the following quote & is very thought provoking ...

"Thoughts mold your features. Thoughts lift your soul heavenward or drag you toward hell. … As nothing reveals character like the company we like and keep, so nothing foretells futurity like the thoughts over which we brood. … To have the approval of your conscience when you are alone with your thoughts is like being in the company of true and loving friends. To merit your own self-respect gives strength to character. Conscience is the link that binds your soul to the spirit of God."

--David O. McKay,, "Developing Character", Ensign, Oct. 2001, 22

I did a double take when I was searching the blog to see if either of these quotes had been used. President David O. McKay served from 1951 to 1970, yet the quote is found in the Ensign of October 2001!!

This next quote is the second quote from this particular article, which would have been a conference talk in April's General Conference. It would be interesting to read the entire article.

"A pebble held close to the eye appears to be a gigantic obstacle. Cast on the ground, it is seen in perspective. Likewise, problems or trials in our lives need to be viewed in the perspective of scriptural doctrine. Otherwise they can easily overtake our vision, absorb our energy, and deprive us of the joy and beauty the Lord intends us to receive here on earth."

--Richard G. Scott, "Finding Joy in Life", Ensign May 1996

Do not fail the Lord

President Spencer W. Kimball was a very awesome man. When I worked at the LDS Church Office Building, it was during his tenure as prophet. I worked in the Missionary Department & got to see him personally occasionally. One thing on Mother's bucket list is to meet a prophet of God.

"I say to everyone within the sound of my voice, 'Do not fail the Lord.' We must accept the truth that the gospel principles are not on trial but that we are."

--Spencer W. Kimball, "Fortify Your Homes against Evil," Ensign, May 1979, 4

And ...

"You are sent to this world with a very serious purpose. You are sent to school, for that matter, to begin as a human infant and grow to unbelievable proportions in wisdom, judgment, knowledge, and power. That is why you and I cannot be satisfied with saying merely 'I like that or want that.' That is why in our childhood and our youth and our young adulthood we must stretch and grow and remember and prepare for the later life when limitations will terminate so that we can go on and on and on"

--Spencer W. Kimball, "the Matter of Marriage", from an address delivered at University of Utah Institute of Religion, 22 Oct. 1976, 2

Faith to follow counsel

I requested 2 reading assignments today. The quotes from the first request have already been posted, but these have not been received before.

"The kind of life you live, your disposition, your very nature, will be determined by your thoughts, of which your acts are but the outward expression. Thought is the seed of action."

--David O. McKay, Teachings of Presidents of the Church: David O. McKay, 23: Developing a Christlike Character

 This quote is the first by President Eyring.

"God offers us counsel not just for our own safety but for the safety of His other children, whom we should love. There are few comforts so sweet as to know that we have been an instrument in the hands of God in leading someone else to safety. That blessing generally requires the faith to follow counsel when it is hard to do."

--Henry B. Eyring, "Safety in Counsel", Liahona, Jun 2008, 2–7

To be strengthened

Tonight's quotes are both good ones to ponder. The first one, talks about prayer

"No earthly authority can separate us from direct access to our Creator. There can never be a mechanical or electronic failure when we pray. There is no limit on the number of times or how long we can pray each day. There is no quota of how many needs we wish to pray for in each prayer. We do not need to go through secretaries or make an appointment to reach the throne of grace. He is reachable at any time and any place."

--James E. Faust, "The Lifeline of Prayer," Ensign, May 2002, 59

I have a hard time with this sometimes. I feel like I pray too much, then other times, I feel like, "What am I bothering the Lord for?" & don't pray enough.

The next one is a good one also,

"If you sometimes get discouraged, consider this fellow. He dropped out of grade school. Ran a country store. Went broke. Took 15 years to pay off his bills. Took a wife. Unhappy marriage. Ran for House. Lost twice. Ran for Senate. Lost twice. Delivered speech that became a classic. Audience indifferent. Attacked daily by the press and despised by half the country. Despite all this, imagine how many people all over the world have been inspired by this awkward, rumpled, brooding man who signed his name simply, A. Lincoln." (Wall Street Journal.) 'It is important to know, when you feel down, that many others do also and that their circumstances are generally much worse than yours. And it's important to know that when one of us is down, it becomes the obligation of his friends to give him a lift. I hope that each of us will cultivate a sensitivity toward the feelings of others, and when encouragement is needed, make an effort to extend it. Be a friend, and you will have a friend. God be thanked for wonderful friends.'

--Gordon B. Hinckley, "Strengthening Each Other," Ensign, Feb. 1985, 3

A key to happiness

This afternoon when I was posting some quotes, Nick was standing behind me & finally he said, "What does that word say at the top of the screen?" I said, "Quotes." He answered with, "Isn't quotes spelled wrong?" Well, yes, I answered, quotes is spelled wrong. But I used to have a web page called Thoughts to Ponder. When I tried to name my blog that, it was taken. I decided combining quotes & thoughts would be unique enough it wouldn't be taken, LOL. Thus, Quoghts.

"Selflessness is a key to happiness and effectiveness; it is precious and must be preserved as a virtue which guarantees so many other virtues."

--Spencer W. Kimball, "Privileges and Responsibilities of Sisters", Ensign, Nov 1978, 101

I would have been working at Church Headquarters in Salt Lake when this talk was given.

Who's losing?

A couple of quotes from several years ago. They're still appropriate:

Don't be discouraged at seemingly overwhelming odds in your desire to live and to help others live God's commandments. At times it may seem like David trying to fight Goliath. But remember, David did win."

--David B. Haight, Ensign, November 1977

 This next one made me chuckle.

"One warm evening during the past summer months Sister Ashton and I enjoyed a professional baseball game. During the early part of the competition our attention was diverted from the action by a late arriver. As he walked by, he spotted me and asked, 'Who's losing?' I responded with, 'Neither one.' Following my answer, I noticed that he glanced at the right-field scoreboard, saw the game wasn't tied, and walked on, undoubtedly wondering about me. Seconds after he made his way to a distant seat, Sister Ashton said, 'He doesn't know you very well, does he?' 'What makes you say that?' I replied. She responded with, 'If he did, he would know you don't believe anyone is losing. Some are ahead and some are behind, but no one is losing. Isn't that right?' I smiled in approval with a warm feeling inside. Proper attitude in this crisis-dominated world is a priceless possession. Never before is it more important for all of us to move forward with conviction. We may be behind, but we are not losing if we are moving in the right direction. God will not score our performances until the end of the journey."

--Elder Marvin J Ashton, "Who's Losing?" Ensign, Nov. 1974, 41

I remember a professional baseball game I attended in the summer of 1974 in Minneapolis, Minn. I attended with a group of LDS missionaries as guests of Harmon Killebrew for a Minnesota Twins game. We stood out because the young men were dressed in dark suits & ties & the women were in brightly colored dresses, not quite the normal attire for attending a professional baseball game or any kind of baseball game for that matter.

During the game the crowd started yelling & everyone stood up. My companion & I, both being short & not being able to see past the stalwart young men we were surrounded by, stood on the bleacher seats, just to see over their heads. The mission president started yelling, "Sit down! SIT down!" If our team was ahead, why would we want to sit down? It didn't make any sense, but being obedient, we sat down. Well, lo, & behold it had been a streaker running through the bleachers across the field from us. I wasn't even looking there!! I wanted to see what was going on out on the field. I missed the streaker completely, as did my companion. For that matter, we missed what was going out on the field too.

A better person

Guess this quote isn't here, I can't find a tag for 2002. I've taken to searching for either the author or date of the quote so I won't repeat it.

"If we live by the principles of the gospel, we must be good people, for we will be generous and kind, thoughtful and tolerant, helpful and outreaching to those in distress. We can either subdue the divine nature and hide it so that it finds no expression in our lives, or we can bring it to the front and let it shine through all that we do."

--Gordon B. Hinckley, "Each a Better Person", Ensign, Nov. 2002, 99

This thought reminds me of a book I read recently, Return From Tomorrow by George Ritchie, MD. It is about a near death experience or NDE as they are called. He relates seeing dead people & he was trying to talk to live people. He wanted to find his body.

"In the gospel of Jesus Christ you have help from both sides of the veil and you must never forget that. When disappointment and discouragement strike, and they will, you remember and never forget that if our eyes could be opened we would see horses and chariots of fire as far as the eye can see riding at reckless speed to come to our protection. They will always be there, these armies of heaven, in defense of Abraham's seed."

--Jeffrey R. Holland, "For Times of Trouble," New Era, Oct. 1980, 15

God's children

Only one quote was not a repeat tonight:

"The knowledge that Heavenly Father loves us and that we are His children gives us strength, comfort, and hope to live this mortal life. Allowing the Savior to atone for our sins is the greatest expression of our Heavenly Father's love for each of us. "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life."

--Dean R. Burgess, "Do You Know Who You Are?", Ensign, May 2008, 53–55

Self-condemning

This first quote is very timely.

"Do not allow yourself to be self-condemning. Avoid discouragement. Teach yourself correct principles and govern yourself with honor. Appropriately involve yourself in helping others. As we develop proper self-image in ourself and others, I promise you the "nobody" attitude will completely disappear. Ever remember wherever you are today within the sound of my voice that you are someone."

--Marvin J. Ashton, "In His Strength", Ensign, Jul 1973, 24

 It's kind of hard not to be self-condemning.

"The teachings and values we cherish the most are not embraced by a secular world. To maintain a firm stance for ourselves and our children, the message of the restored gospel must be firmly planted in our hearts and taught in our homes."

--W. Craig Zwick, "We Will Not Yield, We Cannot Yield", Ensign, May 2008, 97–99

True, so true.

Forgiveness

Today's quotes from readthescriptures dot com:

"The gospel of Jesus Christ transcends mortality. Our work here is but a shadow of greater and unimaginable things to come."

--Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, Ensign, May 2005, 28

And one from Elder Hanks

"What is our response when we are offended, misunderstood, unfairly or unkindly treated, or sinned against, made an offender for a word, falsely accused, passed over, hurt by those we love, our offerings rejected? Do we resent, become bitter, hold a grudge? Or do we resolve the problem if we can, forgive, and rid ourselves of the burden? The nature of our response to such situations may well determine the nature and quality of our lives, here and eternally. A courageous friend, her faith refined by many afflictions, said to me only hours ago, "Humiliation must come before exaltation." It is required of us to forgive. Our salvation depends upon it."

--Marion D. Hanks, "Forgiveness The Ultimate Form of Love", Ensign Jan. 1974, 20

Guard against the adversary

Today's quotes:

"The way for each person and each family to guard against the slings and arrows of the Adversary and to prepare for the great day of the Lord is to hold fast to the iron rod, to exercise greater faith, to repent of our sins and shortcomings, and to be anxiously engaged in the work of His kingdom on earth, which is The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints."

--Spencer W. Kimball, "The Lord Expects Righteousness", Ensign, Nov 1982, 4

And another one:

"There is a divine purpose in the adversities we encounter every day. They prepare, they purge, they purify, and thus they bless."

--James E. Faust, "The Refiner's Fire," Ensign, May 1979, 53

He is risen

President Gordon B. Hinckley said

"These simple words — "He is not here, but is risen" — have become the most profound in all literature. They are the declaration of the empty tomb. They are the fulfillment of all He had spoken concerning rising again. They are the triumphant response to the query facing every man, woman, and child who was ever born to earth."

--Gordon B. Hinckley, "He Is Not Here, but Is Risen", Ensign, May 1999, 70

 The next quote is the emphatic one from Elder Ashton. I still think it should be empathetic & readthescriptures dot com has made a mistake. I should take a minute & find out.

So, in searching for Elder Ashton's talk, "Straightway," in the May 1983 Ensign, I came upon this quote:

Procrastination is unproductive delay. Someone has wisely said, “Procrastination is a silly thing, it only makes me sorrow; but I can change at any time—I think I will tomorrow!” 

And yes, I was right, the word is empathetically. Here is the correct quote:

Just by listening empathetically, we often can help others find their own solutions. Recently a stake president told me that one of the most sincere thank-yous he had ever received came from a young mother with two children who, under very difficult conditions, was trying diligently to succeed as a single parent. After a lengthy interview, her words of appreciation were simply, “Thank you for listening to me. I think I can face my problems much better now.”

Daily fervent prayers

Here's a new Staheli quote:

"Daily fervent prayers seeking forgiveness and special help and direction are essential to our lives and the nourishment of our testimonies. When we become hurried, repetitive, casual, or forgetful in our prayers, we tend to lose the closeness of the Spirit, which is so essential in the continual direction we need to successfully manage the challenges of our everyday lives. Family prayer every morning and night adds additional blessings and power to our individual prayers and to our testimonies."

--Donald L. Staheli, "Securing Our Testimonies," Ensign, Nov. 2004, 39

And a Faust quote:

"In the many trials of life, when we feel abandoned and when sorrow, sin, disappointment, failure, and weakness make us less than we should ever be, there can come the healing salve of the unreserved love in the grace of God. It is a love that lifts and blesses. It is a love that sustains a new beginning on a higher level and thereby continues from grace to grace."

--James E. Faust, "A Personal Relationship with the Savior", Ensign, November 1976, p. 59.

Stresses of Life

I think this is a first for Elder L. Tom Perry:

"In our search to obtain relief from the stresses of life, may we earnestly seek ways to simplify our lives. May we comply with the inspired counsel and direction the Lord has given us in the great plan of happiness. May we be worthy to have the companionship of the Holy Ghost and follow the guidance of the Spirit as we navigate this mortal journey. May we prepare ourselves to accomplish the ultimate purpose of this mortal test — to return and live with our Heavenly Father."

--L. Tom Perry, "Let Him Do It with Simplicity", Ensign, Nov 2008, 7–10

 I think this is a first for Elder Mason also:

"Increased faith is as vital and necessary today as it was when Jesus walked the earth. Our modern world struggles with insufficient faith. President Gordon B. Hinckley said in a conference talk: “This is my prayer for all of us. … Increase our faith to bridge the chasms of uncertainty and doubt. … Grant us faith to look beyond the problems of the moment to the miracles of the future. … Give us faith to do what is right and let the consequences follow."

--James O. Mason, "Faith in Jesus Christ", April 2001 Ensign pg 22

Hold fast to the rod

Can't find another quote by Elder Bednar, so I doubt this is a repeat. The first quote was a repeat. There have been some good quotes on Facebook lately, but I haven't taken the time to snag them.

"Are you and I daily reading, studying, and searching the scriptures in a way that enables us to hold fast to the rod of iron—or are you and I merely clinging? Are you and I pressing forward toward the fountain of living waters—relying upon the word of God? These are important questions for each of us to ponder prayerfully."

--Elder David A. Bednar, "CES Fireside for Young Adults • February 4, 2007", Brigham Young University

Choose the road of faith

Another set of quotes from readthescriptures dot com.

"Challenges, difficulties, questions, doubts—these are part of our mortality. But we are not alone. As disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ, we have enormous spiritual reservoirs of light and truth available to us. Fear and faith cannot coexist in our hearts at the same time. In our days of difficulty, we choose the road of faith."

--Elder Neil L. Andersen, "You Know Enough", Ensign, Nov 2008, 13–14

And another, this may be a repeat,

"Through service to others, we develop a Christlike love and we experience joy. Service teaches patience and long-suffering as well as gentleness, goodness, and faith."

--Merrill J. Bateman, "Living a Christ-Centered Life", Liahona, Dec 1999, 13

Love the Lord

Here is a quote from today's more reading request:

"When we love the Lord, obedience ceases to be a burden. Obedience becomes a delight. When we love the Lord, we seek less for things that benefit us and turn our hearts toward things that will bless and uplift others."

--Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, "The Great Commandment", October 2007 General Conference

And another quote from readthescriptures dot com

"Please don't nag yourself with thoughts of failure. Do not set goals far beyond your capacity to achieve. Simply do what you can do, in the best way you know, and the Lord will accept of your effort."

--Gordon B. Hinckley, "Rise to the Stature of the Divine within You," Ensign, Nov. 1989, 94

One from more reading request. Did two reading requests today:

"There is great power in loving, consistent, fervent family prayer. Don't deny your families this blessing. Don't allow the strength that comes from family prayer to slip away from you and your loved ones through neglect."

--John H. Groberg, "The Power of Family Prayer," Ensign, May 1982, 52

Shun sin

More quotes:

"Because the evil one is ever at work, our vigilance cannot be relaxed - not even for a moment. A small and seemingly innocent invitation can turn into a tall temptation which can lead to tragic transgression. Night and day, at home or away, we must shun sin and hold fast that which is good."

--Elder Russell M. Nelson, "Set in Order Thy House", Ensign, Nov. 2001

This next quote is a double dip. It sure goes hand in hand with Elder Nelson's quote above:

"In the absence of a compelling testimony, some have let their daily thoughts and actions become so focused on the things of the world that they have minimized the influence of the light of the gospel in their everyday lives. "And then as Elder Neal A. Maxwell has so eloquently described, also included are those ' "honorable" members who are skimming over the surface instead of deepening their discipleship and who are casually engaged rather than "anxiously engaged" (D&C 76:75; 58:27)' (in Conference Report, Oct. 1992, 89; or Ensign, Nov. 1992, 65). . . "

--Elder Donald L. Staheli, "Securing Our Testimonies," Ensign, Nov. 2004, 37

Gratitude for God's gift

I thought I had added this one by President Uchtdorf, but I've checked all 3 blogs & can't find it. Maybe it's on the scripture journal. I put some there one night when I was too lazy to figure out how to open a blog. I usually have 6 tabs open when I'm reading the scriptures & if I leave a blog open, it makes for another open tab.

"Our willingness to repent shows our gratitude for God's gift and for the Savior's love and sacrifice on our behalf. Commandments and priesthood covenants provide a test of faith, obedience, and love for God and Jesus Christ, but even more importantly, they offer an opportunity to experience love from God and to receive a full measure of joy both in this life and in the life to come."

--Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "A Matter of a Few Degrees", Ensign, May 2008, 57–60

This sounds like the plot of "Final Farewell" by Patricia Wiles. It is out of print, but I'd sure like to read it.

"When the time comes for you to sacrifice for that which you believe, will you have the faith to make that sacrifice? Will you commit to do anything the Lord asks, even if it means putting aside a lifelong goal?"

--The New Era, November 1989, pages 4-6.

And s'more quotes ...

Since I'm behind on my reading, I try to get caught up by requesting 2 reading assignments a day. Some days it works, some days it doesn't.

"Receiving the Holy Ghost is the therapy which effects forgiveness and heals the sin-sick soul."

--Marion G. Romney, "The Holy Ghost", Ensign, May 1974, 90

And another one:

"Let us never lose sight of the fact that education is a preparation for life -- and that preparing for life is far more than knowing how to make a living or how to land on the moon. Preparing for life means building personal integrity, developing a sound sense of values, increasing the capacity and willingness to serve. Education must have its roots in moral principles. If we lose sight of that fact in our attempt to match our educational system against that of the materialists, we shall have lost far more than we could possibly gain."

--Teachings of Ezra Taft Benson, p. 297

I didn't finish this last night, so I'll just add on tonight's. One of the quotes was a repeat,

"Meekness is vital to becoming more Christlike. Without it one cannot develop other important virtues. . . Acquiring meekness is a process. . . More meekness does not translate to weakness, but it is the presentation of self in a posture of kindness and gentleness. It reflects certitude, strength, serenity; it reflects a healthy self-esteem and a genuine self-control (Neal A. Maxwell, "Meekly Drenched in Destiny," in Brigham Young University 1982-83 Fireside and Devotional Speeches [1983], 2). More meekness will allow us to be tutored by the Spirit."

--H. David Burton, More Holiness Give Me, Ensign, Nov. 2004, 99

More Facebook quotes

Not as many today as there were yesterday, but still some good ones.

Emily Naef had a couple:

"I have reached the end of the patience line and it ain't pretty."

and

Life is like a bus. You go through rough spots, and you go through beautiful spots. You let people in, and you let people out. Sometimes you even break down.

Bj Roop says:

... just when you get use to the sun ... suddenly it starts to rain ..... just when you get all the cards, somebody changes the game ... just when you think you've figured things out, that's when the other shoe drops ... just when you learn the song, that's when the music stops.....

and

Sometimes it is better to be thought of as the weird one of the bunch than to not be thought of at all.. ( Robin Williams)

Kimberlee Harris Coats ‎said:

"The hardest arithmetic to master is that which enables us to count our many blessings." -Eric Hoffer

 

Daily quotes

Today there were too many quotes on Facebook not to snag & save them.

This one is from Amelia Martinez Harris from LDS.org

No matter how bad things seem to be, remember you're not losing (even though it feels like it), just adjust your attitude.

~ Elder Marvin J. Ashton

Christine Chemnitz wrote:

Sometimes even to live is an act of courage. 

Emily Naef wrote:

Cleaning house and raising kids is like stringing beads with no knot! 

Kimberlee Harris Coats wrote:

He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.

~ Epictetus

Stephen Jean-Luc Jarvis wrote:

Somedays I wonder. Where is my life going? Then I look at my map and realize it was upside down.

Kristy Metcalfe Nelson wrote:

Our bishop reminded us of this saying on Sunday ... "What I do depends on how I feel about what I know."

The Pink Ribbon shared this quote:

The human spirit is stronger than anything that can happen to it.

~ C.C. Scott

Ann Allred Bull wrote:

"Hold onto things that make you happy and let go of things that make you sad!" 

All of these thoughts were from one 24-hour period. And, I didn't copy all of them either.

Fatherhood

Today's quotes are:

"No man achieves the supernal exalting status of worthy fatherhood except as a gift from his wife."

--President Boyd K. Packer, Ensign, May 1998, 73

Couldn't we turn that around & say motherhood is a gift from our husband?

"Fathers, yours is an eternal calling from which you are never released. Callings in the Church, as important as they are, by their very nature are only for a period of time, and then an appropriate release takes place. But a father's calling is eternal, and its importance transcends time. It is a calling for both time and eternity."

--Ezra Taft Benson, "To the Fathers in Israel,", Ensign, Nov 1987, 48

Wow! What a way to look at it. I have NEVER thought of it in quite that way before.

Two different subjects

More quotes from Read the Scriptures.com

"When you read the Book of Mormon, concentrate on the principal figure in the book . . . the Lord Jesus Christ, Son of the Living God."

--Elder Russell M. Nelson, Ensign, Nov. 1999, 69

An another one:

"President David O. McKay put it beautifully when he said, speaking of mothers, 'This ability and willingness properly to rear children, the gift to love, and eagerness, yes, longing to express it in soul development, make motherhood the noblest office or calling in the world. . .' (Gospel Ideals, Salt Lake City: Improvement Era, 1953, pp. 453-54)."

--H. Burke Peterson, "Mother, Catch the Vision of Your Call," Ensign, May 1974, 31-32

Choose the right way

More quotes,

"We are not born into this world with fixed habits. Neither do we inherit a noble character. Instead, as children of God, we are given the privilege and opportunity of choosing which way of life we will follow—which habits we will form. Confucius said that the nature of men is always the same. It is their habits that separate them. Good habits are not acquired simply by making good resolves, though the thought must precede the action. Good habits are developed in the workshop of our daily lives. It is not in the great moments of test and trial that character is built. That is only when it is displayed. The habits that direct our lives and form our character are fashioned in the often uneventful, commonplace routine of life. They are acquired by practice."

--Delbert L. Stapley, "Good Habits Develop Good Character", Ensign, Nov. 1974, 20

And another one:

"Just as order gave life and beauty to the earth when it was dark and void, so it does to us. Obedience helps us develop the full potential Heavenly Father desires for us in becoming celestial beings worthy some day to live in His presence."

--James E. Faust, "Obedience: The Path to Freedom", May 1999 Ensign

Family

The last few days I've been putting the quotes on my scripture journal, but this is a long one, so I'll put it here.

 "The strength of any community lies in the strength of its families. The strength of any nation lies in the strength of its families. Strong family life comes of strong and clear religious understanding of who we are, and why we are here, and of what we may eternally become. Strong family life comes of the perception that each of us is a child of God, born with a divine birthright, and with a great and significant potential. Strong family life comes of parents who love and respect one another, and who love and respect and nurture their children in the ways of the Lord. These are undergirding principles of our teachings as a church. To the degree that we observe these teachings we build strong families whose generations will strengthen the nation."

--Gordon B. Hinckley, "Mormon Should Mean More Good", Ensign, Nov. 1990, 51

And another:

"Parents can plant seeds in the hearts and minds of their children only if they know where the children are and what they are doing. Parents should not leave the teaching of their children to chance."

--Joseph B. Wirthlin, Ensign, May 1989, p. 9

I sure hope I'm not doubling up some of these quotes.

ETA (edited to add): So, I checked the tag "1989" & sure enough, the one I thought was familiar was, sigh.

Where are we going?

Wow! This is definitely a quote to ponder

"Periodically one might well ask, “If I continue to travel the road I am currently following, where will it lead me and what will happen to my family?” Are we establishing the foundation for an eternal family, or are we focusing more on the pride of personal accomplishments and a collection of temporal trophies that are taking precedence over the things that should really matter most? Regardless of our age and stage in life, daily obedience to gospel principles is the only sure way to eternal happiness."

--Elder Donald L Staheli, "Life’s Great Challenge", May 1998 Ensign pg 81

How many, many times have I thought about this & pondered it 

Live the gospel

More conference quotes:

"Living the gospel does not mean the storms of life will pass us by, but we will be better prepared to face them with serenity and peace. 'Search diligently, pray always, and be believing,' the Lord admonished, 'and all things shall work together for your good, if ye walk uprightly.'"

--Joseph B. Wirthlin, "Finding a Safe Harbor," Ensign, May 2000, 59

and another one:

"You have as great an opportunity for satisfaction in the performance of your duty as I do in mine. The progress of this work will be determined by our joint efforts. Whatever your calling, it is as fraught with the same kind of opportunity to accomplish good as is mine. What is really important is that this is the work of the Master. Our work is to go about doing good as did He."

--Gordon B. Hinckley, "This Is the Work of the Master", Ensign, May 1995, 69

History turns on small hinges

More quotes from readthescriptures.

"It has been said that the gate of history turns on small hinges, and so do people's lives. The choices we make determine our destiny."

--Thomas S. Monson, "Choose You This Day," Ensign, Nov. 2004, 67

And this one Nick needs to read this & internalize it.

"Very often in our anxiousness for the joys of the future we run away from the very things we are wanting and needing today. An appropriate examination of the passing moment will prove it leads to eternity. We need to constantly remind ourselves eternity is in process now."

--Marvin J. Ashton, "The Time Is Now", Ensign, May 1975, 85

 As if we could give it to him & he'd "get" it.

Life events

I'm trying to catch up on my Old Testament reading & so, I requested 2 reading assignments today.

"Closely related to our own obligation to repent is the generosity of letting others do the same...In this we participate in the very essence of the Atonement of Jesus Christ...We don't want God to remember our sins, so there is something fundamentally wrong in our relentlessly trying to remember others' sins...It is one of those ironies of godhood that in order to find peace, the offended as well as the offender must engage the principle of forgiveness."

--Jeffrey R. Holland, "The Peaceable Things of the Kingdom", Ensign, Nov. 1996, 82

They were LOONNG quotes today:

"Sadness, disappointment, and severe challenge are events in life, not life itself. I do not minimize how hard some of these events are. They can extend over a long period of time, but they should not be allowed to become the confining center of everything you do. The Lord inspired Lehi to declare the fundamental truth, "Men are, that they might have joy." That is a conditional statement: "they might have joy." It is not conditional for the Lord. His intent is that each of us finds joy. It will not be conditional for you as you obey the commandments, have faith in the Master, and do the things that are necessary to have joy here on earth."

--Richard G. Scott, "Finding Joy in Life", Ensign, May 1996, 24

I only saved one quote from the first request. This one:

"No pain that we suffer, no trial that we experience is wasted. It ministers to our education, to the development of such qualities as patience, faith, fortitude and humility. All that we suffer and all that we endure, especially when we endure it patiently, builds up our characters, purifies our hearts, expands our souls, and makes us more tender and charitable, more worthy to be called the children of God . . . and it is through sorrow and suffering, toil and tribulation, that we gain the education that we come here to acquire and which will make us more like our Father and Mother in heaven"

--Orson F. Whitney, in Kimball, Faith Precedes the Miracle, 98